Dear Mal -
I saw you on Friday evening. Thank you so much for your wonderful
knowledge.
I came to you at my lowest ebb. Your treatment was like receiving/
experiencing a little bit of heaven. As the minutes moved on - the
scales dropped off - I can vaguely see through the crack into the
light.
I have had an intermittent head-ache over the weekend but also feel
more grounded, less stressed, and optimistic.
I notice that you do 30 minute sessions of chanting with sounds -
Toning is what you mentioned I needed as part of my process.
Please may I make an appointment for a Friday or Monday when ever
you can fit me in.
I also mentioned that I am a massage/psycho and hypno-therapist. -
and so as you can imagine - I am already thinking that i would like
to move towards asking you to under-take to be my teacher and guide
along the process - but all in the fullness of time, when you think
i am ready. In the mean time i look forward to seeing you as much
as i can afford. At the moment i don't even have a job - or a divorce!
If any of your students ever need a body to work on please may I volunteer?
So all in all many doors will now open, i look forward to the process.
Thank you again for your time, expertise, patience, and kindness.
Hugs and love Jan
Janice
London, 16th February 2009
It was quite a journey and
I appreciate you coming and sharing your knowledge with me.
I look forward to learning more and exploring
the world of Tantra. In that session I had to confront some deep seated
fears and doubts that i thought I had dealt with. It really is deep
and intense stuff and I believe you are doing a great service. .
I hope that in time I learn more and work
out my 90% and can assist in sharing the teachings with the world.
First I am finding a reason why I want to do it. I have several but
they need defining, I believe, in order to keep my focus and intent.
Ps. you are right after the fifth count
during the "Yoni - Lingam" massage great things begin to
happen to the woman... I manage to get to the end without fail on
my part
Alvaro
Sri Lanka, 26th December 2008
To have a healing session with Mal is to
invite the darkness and shadows of your fear around your body and
the feminine, sexual self, into the light. I knew when I heard of
his work through Maya F, that his special Yoni Massage was something
I wanted to experience. I think I was going through a period of "needing"
to be seen by men and recognized as someone to love. Of course it
wasn't happening, as the unspoken signal I was sending out, acted
as a deterrent to the right kind of man. I felt pent-up and unsure
of the "why's" surrounding it and seeing Mal was a lucid surrender.
I left a lot of things behind with the decision
to see him and I knew even before the healing, that I wanted to experience
the session completely. Before I arrived, though, I was feeling shy
and even guilty around the idea. I was early for my appointment and
he was still working, so I sat on the street corner by a tree and
just looked at the sky and waited. Having these moments, gave me time
to reflect on what it is I was seeking and why. When he sent a message
saying I could come around, I was more relaxed and ready.
As we sat together cross-legged in his sanctuary
with candles and music, a calm came over me and I knew that this man
could hold me in a place that maybe no man ever had. He was so thorough
and trusting and gentle. He asked me if I felt prepared to have the
full Yoni Massage and I knew this was the whole reason I was sitting
before him--so without hesitating I said 'yes'. Truly, this was one
of the greatest gifts to myself, to have asked for--and to have received.
There was never a moment of fear, angst or worry. He explained that
he would first work with the whole of my body to do a healing massage
and then into the realms of release.
The experience of being with a man who
was not your partner, who was not a doctor and yet was working in
a healing way with your body that was sensual, but not sexual, was
a new kind of extraordinary. It was almost as if Mal was the true
definition of a physical therapist for the feminine places we rarely
permit ourselves to understand in our every day existence.
I felt held and safe... and completely
honoured, in where he was taking me with his healing. With the Yoni
Massage, it was as if he returned a part of me to myself. After the
healing, I felt strong and pure, in a way. The urgent sense of needing
to be seen or touched or kissed or adored by a man, seemed to dissipate.
It has been three months and I am still in the feeling of how wondrous
this healing was--and I have been seeing a very sensuous man who loves
and adores my body and person. I am the most relaxed I have ever been
in a physical relationship. I am even surprising myself by the calm
I have and the idea of "need" is no longer in my person.
The Yoni Massage with Mal was one of the
most valuable reflections and experiences I have ever given myself.
I have recommended him to those who are experiencing challenges with
their partners or physical/sexual selves. Mal is tender, professional,
guiding and kind and the journey he takes you on, is one to yourself.
He does this with such integrity and honour. He leaves you with a
sense that if you open and release your heart to the darkness of your
fears, there is a place for you within it, that will reflect the joy
that has been there all along.
My Love and Gratitude to You Mal,
Kathleen M
London, 6th December 2008
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"Mal is a very kind and sensitive healer, utilising a marriage
of his excellent massage skills, pure energy and loving kindness."
Caroline Muir
source school of tantra
Maui, Hawaii 26th June 2001
"Mal I cherish your friendship. What a joy you are to the world.
A loving, giving soul with such a pure heart and healing and wise
spirit. A gift indeed to all who know you,.
Dr Judy Kuriansky
world-renowned clinical psychologist and sex therapist, radio advice
host and TV personality. Professor of Columbia University and author
of many books on human sexuality
New York, 25 January 2002
"I have felt more detached and in control of the family issues
that continue to distress me. And as i said, you've awoken my interest
in sex generally which is a deeply strengthening bond between myself
and my partner."
Mrs Jac M
London, 20th July 2001
"Mal's tantric training has helped me to relax and recieve pleasure
much more easily. I am now experiencing multiple orgasms with my boyfriend."
Francesca F
London, 12th July 2001 |
"Thank you for helping
me see that there is no need to live in constant stress and for taking
the time to show me a little bit of heaven."
Mrs Sharon J
London, 5th Febuary 2002
"I was scared. I mean really scared... I also knew that I was not
willing to live life as a non-sexual woman any more. Every day reminders
that I can't enjoy sex like others can. Knowing that every relationship
was doomed. I am half way through the treatment with Mal. At the beginning
he said "Don't trust me - let me earn that trust," and he did. Only
half way and I have discovered lust, pleasure and hope that I can
enjoy a full sexual relationship. Mal does his job to the highest
professional standards."
Melanie M
Therapist
Kingston, Surrey, 4th March 2002
"I strongly recommend Mal's sacred yoni massage for all women!"
Valerie
Psychotherapist
Oakland, USA, 20th Febuary 2002 |
"I since, had 6 sessions with Mal, and every session we have been
unpeeling the onion, and I have been challenged to let go of past
barriers, bit for bit, in each session. Coming from a Christian background,
my belief system was also challenged in quite a profound manner, and
I’ve really had to maintain a open mind right throughout.
I have had irregular periods for over the past year and a half, as I was taking the contraceptive pill for several years since I was a teenager. My cycle was continuously over a 21 day period instead of 28, and I had gone for several acupuncture session to try and correct it, but it remained on 21 days. Since my treatment with Mal, my period has gone back to its natural cycle of 28 days.
Mal is an amazing healer, I cannot recommend him high enough..
Love, light and peace."
Lelani
Therapist
London, October 2007
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